Best restaurants in South Florida to meet Rich Men

Morton’s  Steakhouse @ noon (When all the attorneys are looking for “fun”) in Downtown Ft. Lauderdale

Carpaccios in Bal Barbour Shops

Boatyard in Fort Lauderdale

Bonefish Grill
Bonefish MAC’s – Only in LHP or Wellington
J. Alexanders – Ft Lauderdale or Boca
Blue Moon Cafe

Croissan’Time – All the multi-millionaires get catering from this place.  Video below.

D’Angelo Pizza
ZONA Fresca – ONLY IN FT. Lauderdale on Fed Hwy

Mizner Park – There are MANY restaurants / shopping to find men at.

Flannigans – ONLY THE ONES BY THE BEACH – Deerfield Beach – Pompano Beach and Atlantic – Bal Harbour Surf Side

JB’s On The Beach in Deerfield – Find out when the corporate parties are happening… That’s the BEST time to land a Senior Partner, CFO etc…

OCEANS 123 – 324


DONT ASK THEM WHAT THEY DO FOR A LIVING. This will automatically make you “different” from the “other girls”.

The  best time to go to these restaurant is in season when all the Snowbirds from up north come to SoFlo . Make sure you know where the bathroom is as well as a few “escape routes” before you have a few drinks. Thank me later. 

PLEASE NOTE THAT  A lot of beach places can be a total miss because a lot of grown men like to “play fake rich”  OR  they are trying to get wifed up by rich widows, inexperienced trust fund babies, wealthy rich wives with old money etc… 💯

 BLUE MARTINI in Fort Lauderdale. Watch video below… 💀

The drinks are STRONG AF. Only go there if you want to get COMPLETELY ****faced, if you are getting over a relationship or want to celebrate…

IF YOU DO GO to hunt for men. Tell the bartender to send you shots of water while your date gets drunk on real alcohol.

A guy that looks scary when sober will look like Don Johnson after 2 Palm Beacher Martinis.

That place was REAL GOOD  in the “09 Scott Rothstein Era though. #GoodTimes.


Finding Generous Men is a NUMBERS game

Finding a generous man that is willing to spoil you is a numbers game… Out of the 99% of men a truly generous one is the 1%.? If you go out on 100 dates 1 out of the 100 will be the truly generous one.

**BTW** Any guy I went out on a date with knew what the party was going to be like before he was invited… I’m always up front with men so we don’t waste each other’s time.

Before I owned my condo I used to go on dates on my lunch break… It was great because it kept the dates short and sweet. Then I would go back to work like nothing ever happened.

#facts👌💯 …#wealthymen

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Best Florida Resorts to meet Wealthy Men

Below are the BEST resorts in Florida to meet wealthy men. These high end resorts are away from the nightclub Miami party scene. The wealthy men that frequent these resorts are low key.

Some of the best cities to meet wealthy men in Florida include Hillsboro Mile, Sanibel Island, Captiva Island, Naples, Lighthouse Point and my personal favorite Bal Harbour.

First date ready at ALL times

If you are trying to reel in a rich man you need to be first date ready at ALL times. As a female you know all about the first date outfit.  Its the knock him dead make him want you type of outfit. If you are dating a rich guy you need to  be polished when stepping out.

If you’re like me you only get ready for a date but when you’re on the hunt for a wealthy man you need to stay ready so you don’t have to get ready.

Are you waxed down there?

How do your eyebrows look?

Do you know how to put on your own eyelashes ?

Are your toenails chipped ?

Be sure to keep up with some of these things if you have downtime and can do them yourself.



Confusing courtship phase as having a Sugar Daddy

It’s so easy to confuse a courtship phase with a man as having a “sugar daddy”. A lot of times the first year or two with a man can be the most awesome experience. You go out on fabulous dates, he always wants to take care of everything for you, he takes you shopping for no reason, you always stay at the best hotels…

Then one day it stops.  This means he’s got you and the courtship is now over.  He figures he has spent a naff and now that he has got you he didn’t have to spend anymore.

A lot of women confuse the courtship phase as a sugar daddy what really just happened is that a man did whatever it took and spent whatever he needed to to lock you in.

You may find out that this courtship was financed through credit cards Or that he might have missed some child support payments to find his whirlwind love affair.

I have seen this happen and it is very real… I’m not trying to be negative but please be aware of this phase when first starting out with a man and don’t fall into the sugar daddy fantasy… What goes up must come down please keep that in mind.  The honeymoon doesn’t last forever.

Would you still be into this guy even if you couldn’t do all those awesome things ?  If not then I suggest you break off the relationship early before it gets harder to separate later.

How wealthy men afford a fleet of vehicles

Most wealthy business owners use their vehicles as write offs. So even though your new man may drive a big body Benz, chances are it’s a write-off if he owns his own business and it’s his daily work driver.


*If you work for him you can probably get him to lease you a car and it would be a write off for him. Every three years you can upgrade your car.

*That means more $$$ to spend on you if his car is a write off.


*The car will be in his name and he can take it back whenever if he leases as a company car.

*He can put a tracker in it and know your every move if he is psycho

*Sometimes if a guy gets you a car and its in his name it puts too much power in his hands

*If he is a young guy and he works for his Dad then it’s Daddies money that’s paying for that vehicle



“You can live with me” – What this means for you

When a guy says that you can live with him to me that is a loaded statement. I’m not here to judge and I know every situation is different but there are some questions to ask I have listed them below.

  • How long  have you known him ?
  •  Have you met his family ?
  • Do you have friends in the area in case things go south ?
  •  Do you have a stable job ?
  • do you have your own place as well?
  •  Does he have kids ?
  •  Why does he want you to live with him?
  •  Can you afford a place on your own ?
  •  Do you have your own car ?
  •  Is this a temporary situation ?
  • Are you in school or working towards a goal ?
  •  Are you on birth control ?
  • have you ever lived with another man before how did it go?

I know that has a female sometimes things happen and you have to do what you have to do.  If you feel like moving in with a guy is  something you  need to do BE SURE to have a back up for EVERYHING.

Cash, friends to stay with , a job, your own car that you own or is in your name and even your own place on reserve.

Sometimes men play the first date trick where all you have seen are his good traits and then when you move in with them you see all the stuff they didn’t want you to see…

What if you he said he made 100k a year. After living with him you find out he only makes about $50k after tax and wants you to help with he bills now that you are living with him.

Personal Story – I dated a investment banker when I first moved to south Florida and he live in a $4.3 million condo. One day while he was in the shower I saw his mortgage payment and it was $15,000 a month. But you would swear that it was paid in full all-cash and that everything is great.

The moral of the story is to have your own thing going because a lot of times you have no idea what’s going on with the man you are dating. Men will do and say whatever to get what they want especially women.

Are you qualified to date rich men ?

  1. Do you have a stable job or business making 30,000 or more
  2. do you have your own place
  3. do you have your own vehicle

A few years ago during the recession I only had one out of the three on this list. Then I  job paid, paid off my vehicle then, then I met a generous guy in the parking lot at work and he helped me find a 2/2 Condo for $700 a month. After that he also help me clean up my credit and helped me purchase a condo.

Having  A job a car and your own place will put you at in advantage as far as having  affluent men court and spoil you.  When a guy has money he is usually secretly qualifying a woman oh where do you work oh where do you live oh where did you go to school.  All of these things tell a man a lot .

And depending on a woman’s age it can determine how you will be treated. If you only have one or two things out of this list make it a top priority to have all 3 and have them all in your OWN name. It will advance your progress and enable you to meet even more men.




Building preeminence -How to raise your stock.

The definition of preeminence – The fact of  surpassing all others superiority.

Building preeminence comes along with time and keeping your standards high. If you are young and starting out try to get a mature woman to mentor you and they will be able to teach you a lot.

As time goes on you will learn from different experiences,   As well as from a wide range of men.

Building preeminence is like climbing up the layers of class.  It takes time.

You need time in the game to build yourself up or as my first older boyfriend called it  “Debutante School”.

How to travel with points or catch an empty leg…

Traveling on a budget

There was a time when I didn’t have good credit… My boyfriend helped my credit go from a 513 to a 713 in less than a year since he owned his own business… Mind you I had to re-build it myself but I was able to do it through him.

The one card I use for all of my purchases is my Delta AMEX Gold card which gives me points for purchases.

If you are low on cash I recommend getting a credit card with sign on BONUS miles. I recently flew my little brother out to Florida from California for $11.20 (tax) round trip. Since I didn’t have to spend on airfare we played Aqua Golf in Hallandale, drove go-karts at X-Treme, shot high powered guns at Nexus, ate out EVERY night and I made sure he was sent back to the airport in a private car and I tipped the driver $30 to take the scenic route.

We had a blast !

When booking your flight try to fly out on a week day from 5am – 9am when business men travel. The earlier you leave the better… And if you get a AMEX Gold or Reserve Card you can use it to hang out in the AMEX sky lounge. AMEX sky lounge in JFK New York has private showers… How crazy is that ?

It also doesn’t hurt to arrive early in a private car, make sure your make up is on BEFORE you arrive at the airport. You never know who you might run into. AND trust me – the day you are looking a hot mess is the day you will run into the man of your dreams.

Stay ready and you never have to get ready.

Also too if you are into having a driver, be sure to use the same company every time and please know that a lot of times drivers will arrive early as a courtesy.

The company I use keeps a profile on me and knows which cars I like in my fleet. One time they sent a luxury Camry to pick me up… CAMRY ? I could of paid my Grandma $100 to pick me up. I let them know I was disappointed and they upgraded me the next time.

The awesome part of the limo company I use is that they send me a photo text of the driver that will be driving me which makes me feel safer than using Uber.

Traveling without a budget

Empty Leg Flights – First Class – Friends with Planes – Oshkosh Air Show

Traveling without a budget If you are a high earning woman then congratulations here are some fantastic way to meet other men if money is not a problem. Empty leg flights are a great way to catch a private flight basically an empty leg flight is when a private plane drops somebody off in New York but then they have to pick up another person would say from California. Instead of flying back with an empty flight they might as well fill it with a person so the person can help pay for gas. Usually you can’t find him do you like flight flying from popular destinations like Florida to New York. Or from New York to London. They have a website with memberships that also cut down on the cost of private flying. Another way is if you know somebody that knows somebody that owns a plane. I knew of a couple that both had their private pilot license is and kept a small plane in their barn in the Midwest and would fly all around the U.S. Sometimes if there was room they would have friends with them on their plane. Every year they would fly to Oshkosh air show which is a haven for other plane owners enthusiasts and pilot etc. If you are looking to make friends or find men in the plane game then you should head to the Oshkosh air show. The second option is to fly first class which is also cheaper and will enable you to be around other men that you are trying to date. If you own a business try to rack up miles on your business air card. You most definitely will meet men in first class and they are automatically interested if you are flying alone in first class. You will be a around men from the time you are waiting to board early to when you are seated in your seat. Not to sound mean but you should see the faces on men when they see a hot female in first class but they opted for economy. If you have never flown in first class you should know that you do not need any type of neck rests because the seats in first class are plush. I remember my first time in first class what a blunder. But the first class stewardess was really cool and knew my name which I thought was impressive. She kept asking me if I would like more wine or coffee it was the best flight of all time. I remember just flying through the clouds and saying to myself that I need to try harder in life because I enjoy this. You should travel extra light as if you are a seasoned traveler. Men can tell if you do not travel a lot. It also helps if you carry a Wall Street Journal newspaper because it is an instant conversational starter. A newspaper is better than a magazine because it says that you have a brain and that you’re not some Prada bag seeking bimbo. If you top it off by having a driver pick you up then you most definitely will put yourself in a different bracket from the other women.

Wealthy Playgrounds

Certain destinations come and go as hotspots for those in higher income brackets… Some will always be hot spots. Colorado – Aspen, Vail, Park City, Utah, Jackson Hole – Wyoming, BVI – British Virgin Islands, Grand Prix, Monte Carlo, Miami, San Francisco, Manhattan, Hamptons, Los Angeles, Las Vegas, DC – Washington, BH – Beverly Hills, Bal Harbour…

There are many more. When planning a business trip try to get to any of these destinations early to squeeze in time for pleasure.

If possible instead of flying in on a Thursday see if you can fly in on a Wednesday and fly back on a Sunday night that way you have the weekend to enjoy a new city. If your company only pays for the 3 days pay out of pocket for 2 more. This is an economical way to meet other men, and they will open up more when you let them know you are there for business.

Rich Men have gyms at home – Sports for the Affluent

Alpha Sports

Triathlon – FrogRun – SavageRace – IRON MAN

A LOT of training, time and money is involved in getting ready for a triathlon / IRON Man events / obstacle races. This is the BEST place to find high achieving men in their 30’s – 40’s. MAJOR plus if you are also competing in one of these events and you will earn extra points with the man you are pursuing.

If you want to be where the men are but don’t want to compete – become a volunteer…

Racquet ball club – Racquet ball at local gym

If you live in affluent neighborhood try to join a Racquet ball club or get a membership at an PRIVATE upscale gym like EQUINOX vs. LA FITNESS…

You will find different men at different times at the gym… In my personal experience the only men worth going for USUALLY like to come in at OFF PEAK gym times like 6am or as soon as they open on a Saturday or Sunday.

Racquetball is low cost entry – all you need are tennis shoes, balls, racket and a bag and you’re good to go… A membership will cost you the most… And remember at a lot of clubs you can pause your membership for a month or two.

Boot Camp Workout / CrossFit

A lot of high earning Alpha’s might work in un-fun environments and crave excitement intensity and excitement when not at work… If you can stand it Boot Camp / CrossFit is the place to find some of these men in the 20 – 30 something bracket.

Spinning class

If you don’t mind sweating it out then spinning class is a GREAT place to find Alpha’s… It’s also very entertaining to get to watch your dream man in action for 40 plus minutes… (this way you know he has strength and stamina)

Arrive early and if you are really bold and can keep up, make sure you choose a bike in the front of the class so he can stare at you sweating in spandex. The visual’s will run through his mind when he is taking a cold shower, this will put you in a better position if you see him the next week.

Walking trails This is just my observation but I have noticed that highly accomplished or wealthy people tend to go on walking trails when they have suffered a major defeat. Hillary Clinton went on a hike in New York and I know of several others that went on a hike as a way to reflect and cleanse the mind I suppose.

I guess it gives them time to process things and get away.

Walking trails also forms character and it’s just an experience in it self you will find lots of driven men out on trails.

I’m not so sure how good of an idea it is to go by yourself.

Perhaps you can take a cute friend or a gay male with you.

Golf class Golf classes are a great place to find man if you have a corporate job this will make connecting with men much easier. When you tell them where you work they will instantly become more comfortable and not see you as a female trolling for men. If you have never played golf before it is a good idea to be trained first so you don’t have to learn to undo mistakes. You can pick up a driver and start driving at the driving range. Once you go from there you can get lessons and then take it to the course. It helps if you have a male friend that will let you borrow his club first so you know which clubs you like for driving. The driving range is a excellent place to find man and it is fairly inexpensive because all you might need is your one driver, And a $8.00 basket of balls. Man will warm up to you if they see that your swing is legit. Also to if you are going for the first time do not wear a push-up bra I tried to wear a push-up bra and it was so embarrassing having my boobs all squeezed up in the way when I was trying to seriously hit the ball. If you are 5’9 or taller I think you would have an easier time hitting the ball. I am 56 and it took me a few days to get a good swing meanwhile my two brothers that are 6 feet tall we’re hitting the ball within 20 minutes. If you are not doing well at the driving range do not get discouraged. Try a different driver set the ball low, set the bal higher find out what works once you hit it the ball you will feel like Tiger Woods winning the Masters. The day I learned to hit the golf ball was the day I started driving into work feeling so accomplished. Horseback riding There is something ridiculously hot about a female riding a horse. When going horseback riding be sure to wear something comfortable you can’t show up in heels. You may find men in certain places like Texas, Jackson hole Wyoming or somewhere in the mid west. Take a few classes so you can get up and off a horse easily that way if you ever meet a man that is into horses you can say that you have done it before. When you have a wide range of experience and skills it will put you ahead of other women. If you have never rode a horse don’t be scared and I am not talking about in a sexual way – be open to new experiences. Prior to the 2016 election my boyfriend wanted for us both to go to a concealed weapons class. I grew up in California and a democratic household and was always taught that guns are bad and my mother never let me have a toy gun as a child. In California all you hear about is gun violence and how it has destroyed peoples lives. My boyfriend however I grew up in the Mid West Ina republican type household where hunting is normal and guns were seen as something for sportsmanship and were kept in a mammoth safe. I said yes to the concealed weapons class and was scared as hell pulling the trigger for the first time but it was so cool to see the bullet holes after I was done with target practice. We had to shoot 25 round I ended up getting 17 out of 25 on the paper. Not only that I learned a whole lot about gun laws and the responsibility that comes with gun ownership. It change my view of guns I now know both sides of what being a gun owner can mean. Gun range There was a time when I was adamantly against guns I am not here to change your perspective on guns I’m just trying to let you know about my experience. Before even going to the gun range I made sure to educate myself from YouTube with the proper gun range etiquette. Besides my experience I just wanted to let you know that middle-age white men that have a lot of money probably own guns – for protection and possibly hunting. And where do all these men hang out? They hang out at the gun range. There are fire fighters, police officers, ex-military, lawyers, doctors, CEOs, prominent business owners, actors, stock brokers etc. all at the gun range. Ammunition is not cheap and neither are good guns that don’t jam. In some states they have multimillion dollar state of the art facilities that look like something out of a Grand theft auto video game. Out here in Florida they had this place called Nexus where you can shoot video game balloon targets with a real gun.

They also have these computer generated analytics that will tell you how accurate you are. Most times there is a waiting list just to get your own shooting bay.

When you drive into a parking lot it looks like A luxury car dealership. I find it funny that all types of women troll bars when all the wealthy men are gathered at places where wealthy men like to play such as the gun range.

A hot female at a gun range that can shoot well – will get more shine than another random hot girl in a club.

If you are a middle aged female and you are not having good luck with men on the golf course then head to the gun range. I know somebody that spent $60,000 to go pheasant, duck and geese hunting in Austria. Pedigreed women from the south also take up clay shooting as a hobby. A wealthy man will find a deep connection and interest in a woman that has the same hobbies as him. You will find all types of men at the gun range –  my boyfriend went to a gun range with a pastor of a prominent church here in South Florida. He told me the Pastor was shooting targets 30 feet away like it was nothing. A lot of times you won’t even know a guy is into guns because sometimes it is a taboo topic and some people freak out if you tell them you are going to the gun range. Women are also increasingly taking up the sport. Even if you do not plan on owning a gun you can rent one and there is nothing wrong about learning about gun laws because it will make you more knowledgeable in the long run. When going to the gun range you will need earmuffs, ammo, gun rental. Sometimes at some ranges you may have to purchase the ammo they have there and you cannot bring in your own ammo and you cannot bring in a loaded gun.

Alpha’s do come in different shapes and sizes. When I used to live on Billionaires row in my twenties I knew this overweight yacht broker that inherited his parent’s home by the intracoastal. He was unmarried without children and boy did he have some toys… I would often ride my bike throughout the neighborhood and sometimes he would pass me and wave to me.

It would be the weirdest thing because he had to be 230 pounds or more… One time I caught up with him and he told me that his bike was solar powered and it could go 30 miles per hour without him having to peddle… He said he liked the bike because he could travel far without having to work so hard…

rock climbing,

beach volleyball – beware of ex-model beach bum types

surfing – A lot of CEO’s like to surf. They are hard to spot in surfer gear.

Yoga class- meditation class,

running club – Entrepreneurs haven

bicycling club,

mountain biking trails,

corporate runs – Are great because you know he has a job. Results show up in google.

scuba diving

Make sure your kids play Lacrosse. My high school in Georgia had the top lacrosse team. If you are looking for affluent Dad’s to mingle with then Lacrosse is it. It is also a great way for your kids to get a scholarship as it is less competitive than football or basketball.

Dog park

Rich men don’t want to date a Princess – They want to turn you into a Queen

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Some men get turned off by the whole Princess act when they are first meeting you. They might put up with it at the start to get you into the bedroom then drop you like a bad habit when they have had their fun. Here in South Florida every wannabe model, bottle girl / remotely attractive woman has a attitude of entitlement so cool it with the Princess act until you know for sure that is his thing.

A lot of older men complain about the Jewish American Princess types typically found in Boca Raton. They drive a BMW have an LV bag expect the best while giving nothing but their presence in return… This is how men have described these types to me… (I’m just the messenger)

Some men view you as spoiled goods if they know that many men before have given you everything you want. Sometimes they feel like “I can’t compete with the guy before me” or if he has an ego it will be “Let me try to outdo the last guy then I will be THE MAN”.

Give a guy a chance to get attached and spoil you before running your Princess game.

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