Best restaurants in South Florida to meet Rich Men

Morton’s  Steakhouse @ noon (When all the attorneys are looking for “fun”) in Downtown Ft. Lauderdale

Carpaccios in Bal Barbour Shops

Boatyard in Fort Lauderdale

Bonefish Grill
Bonefish MAC’s – Only in LHP or Wellington
J. Alexanders – Ft Lauderdale or Boca
Blue Moon Cafe

Croissan’Time – All the multi-millionaires get catering from this place.  Video below.

D’Angelo Pizza
ZONA Fresca – ONLY IN FT. Lauderdale on Fed Hwy

Mizner Park – There are MANY restaurants / shopping to find men at.

Flannigans – ONLY THE ONES BY THE BEACH – Deerfield Beach – Pompano Beach and Atlantic – Bal Harbour Surf Side

JB’s On The Beach in Deerfield – Find out when the corporate parties are happening… That’s the BEST time to land a Senior Partner, CFO etc…

OCEANS 123 – 324


DONT ASK THEM WHAT THEY DO FOR A LIVING. This will automatically make you “different” from the “other girls”.

The  best time to go to these restaurant is in season when all the Snowbirds from up north come to SoFlo . Make sure you know where the bathroom is as well as a few “escape routes” before you have a few drinks. Thank me later. 

PLEASE NOTE THAT  A lot of beach places can be a total miss because a lot of grown men like to “play fake rich”  OR  they are trying to get wifed up by rich widows, inexperienced trust fund babies, wealthy rich wives with old money etc… 💯

 BLUE MARTINI in Fort Lauderdale. Watch video below… 💀

The drinks are STRONG AF. Only go there if you want to get COMPLETELY ****faced, if you are getting over a relationship or want to celebrate…

IF YOU DO GO to hunt for men. Tell the bartender to send you shots of water while your date gets drunk on real alcohol.

A guy that looks scary when sober will look like Don Johnson after 2 Palm Beacher Martinis.

That place was REAL GOOD  in the “09 Scott Rothstein Era though. #GoodTimes.


“You can live with me” – What this means for you

When a guy says that you can live with him to me that is a loaded statement. I’m not here to judge and I know every situation is different but there are some questions to ask I have listed them below.

  • How long  have you known him ?
  •  Have you met his family ?
  • Do you have friends in the area in case things go south ?
  •  Do you have a stable job ?
  • do you have your own place as well?
  •  Does he have kids ?
  •  Why does he want you to live with him?
  •  Can you afford a place on your own ?
  •  Do you have your own car ?
  •  Is this a temporary situation ?
  • Are you in school or working towards a goal ?
  •  Are you on birth control ?
  • have you ever lived with another man before how did it go?

I know that has a female sometimes things happen and you have to do what you have to do.  If you feel like moving in with a guy is  something you  need to do BE SURE to have a back up for EVERYHING.

Cash, friends to stay with , a job, your own car that you own or is in your name and even your own place on reserve.

Sometimes men play the first date trick where all you have seen are his good traits and then when you move in with them you see all the stuff they didn’t want you to see…

What if you he said he made 100k a year. After living with him you find out he only makes about $50k after tax and wants you to help with he bills now that you are living with him.

Personal Story – I dated a investment banker when I first moved to south Florida and he live in a $4.3 million condo. One day while he was in the shower I saw his mortgage payment and it was $15,000 a month. But you would swear that it was paid in full all-cash and that everything is great.

The moral of the story is to have your own thing going because a lot of times you have no idea what’s going on with the man you are dating. Men will do and say whatever to get what they want especially women.

Building preeminence -How to raise your stock.

The definition of preeminence – The fact of  surpassing all others superiority.

Building preeminence comes along with time and keeping your standards high. If you are young and starting out try to get a mature woman to mentor you and they will be able to teach you a lot.

As time goes on you will learn from different experiences,   As well as from a wide range of men.

Building preeminence is like climbing up the layers of class.  It takes time.

You need time in the game to build yourself up or as my first older boyfriend called it  “Debutante School”.

How to travel with points or catch an empty leg…

Traveling on a budget

There was a time when I didn’t have good credit… My boyfriend helped my credit go from a 513 to a 713 in less than a year since he owned his own business… Mind you I had to re-build it myself but I was able to do it through him.

The one card I use for all of my purchases is my Delta AMEX Gold card which gives me points for purchases.

If you are low on cash I recommend getting a credit card with sign on BONUS miles. I recently flew my little brother out to Florida from California for $11.20 (tax) round trip. Since I didn’t have to spend on airfare we played Aqua Golf in Hallandale, drove go-karts at X-Treme, shot high powered guns at Nexus, ate out EVERY night and I made sure he was sent back to the airport in a private car and I tipped the driver $30 to take the scenic route.

We had a blast !

When booking your flight try to fly out on a week day from 5am – 9am when business men travel. The earlier you leave the better… And if you get a AMEX Gold or Reserve Card you can use it to hang out in the AMEX sky lounge. AMEX sky lounge in JFK New York has private showers… How crazy is that ?

It also doesn’t hurt to arrive early in a private car, make sure your make up is on BEFORE you arrive at the airport. You never know who you might run into. AND trust me – the day you are looking a hot mess is the day you will run into the man of your dreams.

Stay ready and you never have to get ready.

Also too if you are into having a driver, be sure to use the same company every time and please know that a lot of times drivers will arrive early as a courtesy.

The company I use keeps a profile on me and knows which cars I like in my fleet. One time they sent a luxury Camry to pick me up… CAMRY ? I could of paid my Grandma $100 to pick me up. I let them know I was disappointed and they upgraded me the next time.

The awesome part of the limo company I use is that they send me a photo text of the driver that will be driving me which makes me feel safer than using Uber.

Traveling without a budget

Empty Leg Flights – First Class – Friends with Planes – Oshkosh Air Show

Traveling without a budget If you are a high earning woman then congratulations here are some fantastic way to meet other men if money is not a problem. Empty leg flights are a great way to catch a private flight basically an empty leg flight is when a private plane drops somebody off in New York but then they have to pick up another person would say from California. Instead of flying back with an empty flight they might as well fill it with a person so the person can help pay for gas. Usually you can’t find him do you like flight flying from popular destinations like Florida to New York. Or from New York to London. They have a website with memberships that also cut down on the cost of private flying. Another way is if you know somebody that knows somebody that owns a plane. I knew of a couple that both had their private pilot license is and kept a small plane in their barn in the Midwest and would fly all around the U.S. Sometimes if there was room they would have friends with them on their plane. Every year they would fly to Oshkosh air show which is a haven for other plane owners enthusiasts and pilot etc. If you are looking to make friends or find men in the plane game then you should head to the Oshkosh air show. The second option is to fly first class which is also cheaper and will enable you to be around other men that you are trying to date. If you own a business try to rack up miles on your business air card. You most definitely will meet men in first class and they are automatically interested if you are flying alone in first class. You will be a around men from the time you are waiting to board early to when you are seated in your seat. Not to sound mean but you should see the faces on men when they see a hot female in first class but they opted for economy. If you have never flown in first class you should know that you do not need any type of neck rests because the seats in first class are plush. I remember my first time in first class what a blunder. But the first class stewardess was really cool and knew my name which I thought was impressive. She kept asking me if I would like more wine or coffee it was the best flight of all time. I remember just flying through the clouds and saying to myself that I need to try harder in life because I enjoy this. You should travel extra light as if you are a seasoned traveler. Men can tell if you do not travel a lot. It also helps if you carry a Wall Street Journal newspaper because it is an instant conversational starter. A newspaper is better than a magazine because it says that you have a brain and that you’re not some Prada bag seeking bimbo. If you top it off by having a driver pick you up then you most definitely will put yourself in a different bracket from the other women.

Wealthy Playgrounds

Certain destinations come and go as hotspots for those in higher income brackets… Some will always be hot spots. Colorado – Aspen, Vail, Park City, Utah, Jackson Hole – Wyoming, BVI – British Virgin Islands, Grand Prix, Monte Carlo, Miami, San Francisco, Manhattan, Hamptons, Los Angeles, Las Vegas, DC – Washington, BH – Beverly Hills, Bal Harbour…

There are many more. When planning a business trip try to get to any of these destinations early to squeeze in time for pleasure.

If possible instead of flying in on a Thursday see if you can fly in on a Wednesday and fly back on a Sunday night that way you have the weekend to enjoy a new city. If your company only pays for the 3 days pay out of pocket for 2 more. This is an economical way to meet other men, and they will open up more when you let them know you are there for business.

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